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Tuesday, September 07, 2010

மருமகள் கொடுமையிலிருந்து பாதுகாக்க ஒரு சுயஉதவிக் குழு

இந்தியாவில் பல மருமகள்கள் செய்யும் அட்டூழியங்கள் கட்டுக்கடங்காமல் போய்விட்டது. இந்த அக்கிரமங்களிலிருந்து அப்பாவிகளைக் காக்க அரசாங்கம் எந்த முயற்சியும் எடுக்காததால் அன்னையர்கள் ஒன்று கூடி ஒரு சுய உதவிக்குழுவை ஆரம்பித்திருக்கிறார்கள்.

மருமகள்களுக்காக மட்டுமே இருக்கும் இந்திய மருமகள் பாதுகாப்பு சட்டங்கள் போல் ஒருதலைபட்சமாக அல்லாமல் மருமகள் கொடுமையால் பாதிக்கப்பட்ட ஆண், பெண், சிறுவர், சிறுமியர், குழந்தைகள் என அனைவரும் வயது, பாலினம் வித்தியாசம் இல்லாமல் இந்த அன்னையர் கழகத்தைத் தொடர்பு கொண்டு உதவி பெறலாம்.

அப்பாவிகளைப் பாதுகாக்கவேண்டிய அரசாங்கத்தை பெண் உரிமை என்ற பெயரில் மகளிர் சங்கங்கள் முடக்கிவிட்டதால் அன்னையர்கள் நாட்டையும் அப்பாவிகளையும் பாதுகாக்கவேண்டிய கட்டாயம் ஏற்பட்டுள்ளது.

என்ன ஒரு அவலநிலை!



It's raining pesky daughters-in-law


CHANDIGARH: It seems that the city is flooded with troublesome daughters-in-laws. Within a day of its launch, the Chandigarh unit of All India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum ( AIMPF) received at least 55 calls, mostly from harassed women, claiming they were fed up with the torment of their 'bahus'.

Talking to TOI on Monday evening, unit incharge Manjit Puri claimed that the helpline began ringing as early as 6:45am, and the torrent continued throughout the day, with most of the 'victims' breaking down while relating their woeful tales.

The callers were not from the city alone, but extended to Punjab and Haryana and included mothers-in-law, sisters-in-law and even fathers-in-law, she added.

"While praying to save her from the clutches of her daughter-in-law, one caller said that after her only son got married, things were going smoothly till they came to know about his wife's affair that was still not over. In a dramatic bid, the daughter-in-law tried to commit suicide. Later, she shifted to her parent's house and filed a case for abetment," Puri said.

Another distressed caller reportedly told Puri how her daughter-in-law moved out over a minor altercation. "The girl's relatives then beat up her in-laws and left them locked in a room of their house. When they lodged a complaint, the accused were arrested on minor charges but soon let off," Puri related.

She said most of the complaints were about the tilted laws that worked in favour of the daughters-in-law. "When the girl complains, police takes immediate action. But when the boy complaints, authorities hardly take note," she added.

"It is not just the men who suffer due to false cases under 498A (cruelty for dowry). Even their elderly parents and other family members are dragged to the jail," said Puri, who attended most of the 55 calls.

There were heart-rending calls from mothers who said they couldn't bear to see their sons, husbands and other kin insulted in full public view by scheming daughters-in-law.

"I have asked the callers to attend the next meeting of the forum on September 12. The line of action includes talking to legal experts and informing them about our plight," Puri said.

The front, headquartered at Bangalore, was launched on September 6 last year.

The Chandigarh unit began functioning on Sunday.


Read more: It's raining pesky daughters-in-law - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chandigarh/Its-raining-pesky-daughters-in-law/articleshow/6509662.cms#ixzz0yu1DBvjl

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http://epaper.hindustantimes.com/PUBLICATIONS/HT/HC/2010/09/07/ArticleHtmls/45-CALLS-FROM-HARASSED-IN-LAWS-IN-24-07092010164006.shtml?Mode=1

Forum to assist mothers-in-law
Tribune News Service

Chandigarh, September 6
A day after the launch of the Chandigarh chapter of the All-India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum (AIMPF), the forum received 45 phone calls on its helpline from elderly women facing dowry harassment cases today.

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2010/20100907/cth2.htm#13


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chandigarh/Its-raining-pesky-daughters-in-law/articleshow/6509662.cms

Harassed mothers-in-law in Chandigarh find their voice
Rajesh Deol, Chandigarh, Sep 6, DHNS:

Hoping to help afflicted mothers-in-law (MILs) to find their own voice, the Chandigarh chapter of All India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum (AIMPF) has started functioning in the city.

http://www.deccanherald.com/content/94599/harassed-mothers-law-chandigarh-find.html


Indian Express - ‎
Tue Sep 07, 2010
All-India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum (AIMPF), a social forum created to protect the rights and interests of the mother-in-laws launched its Chandigarh Chapter at the Leisure Valley in Sector 10, here this evening. The forum was started by Neena Dhulia in Bangalore on September 6 last year.

http://newspolitan.com/forum/art/india/bangalore/GE2DMMBVGA4ECVCQ

http://iplextra.indiatimes.com/article/05qG5JlgvI2aP?q=Mother

http://www.internationalnewsandviews.com/2010/09/aimpf-gets-exorbitant-response-helpline-receives-45-calls-in-one-day-calls-started-as-early-as-645-a-m/

http://www.dailypioneer.com/281355/Inbrief.html


http://globeinfowire.com/newly-set-up-aimpf-receives-45-calls-in-a-day/







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